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Post by banana on May 10, 2007 20:16:30 GMT
have pigged out while i've been poorly. been so so so bad, have not cared about what i've been eating as have just been eating rubbish quick convenience foods and making myself feel better by eating chocolate now i just feel even worse as i havnt dared get on the scales to confirm my weight gain - im deluding myself!! very unhappy  |
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Post by carolinel on May 10, 2007 21:15:51 GMT
never mind Lana, it's more important to feel better than watch what you eat when you're poorly. I'm the same if I'm ill. Tonight I am really tired, headachy and sore throat so I sent hubby to Morrisons to get a french stick for tea! Quite lucky there is no chocolate in the house or it would have gone by now (oops just remembered I ate a tube of my daughters smarties earlier on!)
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Post by manjay on May 10, 2007 21:46:29 GMT
Hope you feel better soon Lana & Caroline.
Caroline - hope you have a nice time in chester. I am off to get some much neede beauty sleep now. Have a long and very alcoholic day ahead at chester races tomorrow so I guess that's my diet out of the window this week. Never mind!!!
Amanda xx
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Post by carolinel on May 11, 2007 19:36:54 GMT
hope you had a good time at the races amanda, and didn't get too drunk and gamble your life away!!!
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Post by janet on May 11, 2007 22:24:23 GMT
:)HI EVERY ONE I AM DOING RUBBISH 2 I AM STILL STRUGGLING WITH THIS STOPPING SMOKING CANT BELIEVE HOW MUCH I THINK ABOUT CIGARETTES, I LOOK AT PEOPLE (AND THERE ARE NOT THAT MANY NOW WHO DO SMOKE) I LOOK AT THEM AND THINK I WISH I COULD JUST HAVE 1. THIS IS PATETIC I KNOW, BUT ITS SO BLOODY HARD. TRYING NOT TO EAT AS WELL THEN I GET FED UP AND GO AND SCOFF WHATEVER, ALSO HAVING A BAD WEEK AGAIN , GOD ALL I SEEM TO DO LATELY IS MOAN, TOLD YOU ALL BEFORE ABOUT THE HARD TIME I AM HAVING WITH MY DAUGHTER BEING JEALOUS, WELL HER BEHAVIOUR IS STILL TERRIBLE. I HAVE TRIED TO IGNORE TI BUT IT IS GETTING TO THE STAGE OF BEING REALLY HURTFULL TO THE OTHER CHILDREN, SHE IS PUSHING THEM OVER AND SNEAKILY HITTING AND BLAMING THE OTHER ONE. I HAVE DECIDED TO BE A BIT TOUGHER WITH HER, I REALLY DONT WANT A CHILD THAT I AM EMBARRASED TO TAKE ANYWHERE, SO SHE IS NOW LEARNING GOOD BEHAVIOR, BECAUSE SHE HAS ALWAYS GOT WHATEVER SHE WANTED FROM EVERY1, MAINLY THE FAULT OF MY MUM IN LAW WHO NEVER SAYS NO TO HER AND WHEN SHARNA SAYS JUMP BASICALLY SHE SAYS HOW HIGH, WELL TODAY MUM IN LAW CAME ROUND AND SHARNA HAD BEEN PLACED ON THE COUCH MADE TO STAY FOR 2 MINS. I WAS IN THE KITCHEN FEEDING 2 UNDER 3,S AND MUM IN LAW CAME IN PICKED UP SHARNA AND GAVE HER A HUG. I WAS QUITE ANNOYED AND SAID SHE HAS BEEN NAUGHTY, SO I HAD PUT HER THERE. SHE LOOKED AT ME AND SAID, "I AM DAMAGING SHARNA PHYSCOLOGICALLY, SHE LOOKS UNHAPPY ALL THE TIME ( WHICH SHE DOESNT) AND I NEED TO STOP LOOKING AFTER EVERYONE ELSES KIDS AND CONCERTRATE ON MY OWN," I ADDED "THEN WHO WILL PAY THE BILLS, ANYWAY I ENJOY MY JOB" SHE THEN PUT DOWN SHARNA AND WALKED OUT CRYING. I FEEL ANGRY, MAD AS HELL, UPSET, IN WHAT SHE HAS SAID, SHE HAS ALWAYS BEEN QUITE AN INTERFERING PERSON EVEN BEFORE SHARNA WAS BORN BUT I CANT GET OVER WHAT SHE HAS SAID
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Post by heldraincloud on May 12, 2007 6:37:37 GMT
 TODAY MUM IN LAW CAME ROUND AND SHARNA HAD BEEN PLACED ON THE COUCH MADE TO STAY FOR 2 MINS. I WAS IN THE KITCHEN FEEDING 2 UNDER 3,S AND MUM IN LAW CAME IN PICKED UP SHARNA AND GAVE HER A HUG. I WAS QUITE ANNOYED AND SAID SHE HAS BEEN NAUGHTY, SO I HAD PUT HER THERE. SHE LOOKED AT ME AND SAID, "I AM DAMAGING SHARNA PHYSCOLOGICALLY, SHE LOOKS UNHAPPY ALL THE TIME ( WHICH SHE DOESNT) AND I NEED TO STOP LOOKING AFTER EVERYONE ELSES KIDS AND CONCERTRATE ON MY OWN," I ADDED "THEN WHO WILL PAY THE BILLS, ANYWAY I ENJOY MY JOB" SHE THEN PUT DOWN SHARNA AND WALKED OUT CRYING. I FEEL ANGRY, MAD AS HELL, UPSET, IN WHAT SHE HAS SAID, SHE HAS ALWAYS BEEN QUITE AN INTERFERING PERSON EVEN BEFORE SHARNA WAS BORN BUT I CANT GET OVER WHAT SHE HAS SAID Hi Janet Stick with your guns, cHildren need bondaries to feel secure, so dont listen to your MIL, you are damaging Sharna, If ever you need to come on here and have a moan, please do, whether it be about Sharna or your MIL, Im having one or two problems with my 4 year old, which I'll go into at another time, sorry matey Ive got to dash to my paed first aid, catch ya later x |
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Post by banana on May 12, 2007 11:03:05 GMT
hi Janet,
sorry to hear you are not having a good time at the moment!!
do not listen to what your mil has said - she is lucky she got to walk out, if it was my mil saying that i'd have thrown her out, so well done you for keeping your cool!!
isabelle was having the same issues with jealousy but with perserverance you can snap them out of it. Discipline the bad behaviour and reward the good, its a slow process but it has been working!!
xxx
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Post by deeb66 on May 12, 2007 12:54:40 GMT
Hi Janet
Sorry you are having tough time - it's not easy to give up smoking I know and trust me I am finding it even harder to limit/cut down on food but just perservere and just do the best you can - it's not easy trying to do both at the same time.
With regards to your little one - sounds like sound advice from Lana.
Hope things get better for you.
Dee
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Post by angeldelight on May 14, 2007 7:23:49 GMT
Hi Janet
Hope you are ok
I have sent you a message
Angel xx
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TODAY MUM IN LAW CAME ROUND AND SHARNA HAD BEEN PLACED ON THE COUCH MADE TO STAY FOR 2 MINS. I WAS IN THE KITCHEN FEEDING 2 UNDER 3,S AND MUM IN LAW CAME IN PICKED UP SHARNA AND GAVE HER A HUG. I WAS QUITE ANNOYED AND SAID SHE HAS BEEN NAUGHTY, SO I HAD PUT HER THERE. SHE LOOKED AT ME AND SAID, "I AM DAMAGING SHARNA PHYSCOLOGICALLY, SHE LOOKS UNHAPPY ALL THE TIME ( WHICH SHE DOESNT) AND I NEED TO STOP LOOKING AFTER EVERYONE ELSES KIDS AND CONCERTRATE ON MY OWN," I ADDED "THEN WHO WILL PAY THE BILLS, ANYWAY I ENJOY MY JOB" SHE THEN PUT DOWN SHARNA AND WALKED OUT CRYING. I FEEL ANGRY, MAD AS HELL, UPSET, IN WHAT SHE HAS SAID, SHE HAS ALWAYS BEEN QUITE AN INTERFERING PERSON EVEN BEFORE SHARNA WAS BORN BUT I CANT GET OVER WHAT SHE HAS SAID
